By Cyndi
Have you noticed that it is much easier to talk than to listen? Think about recent conversations you have had. Have you done most of the talking, did they do most of the talking, or was it really a true “conversation” back and forth? What about in prayer? Prayer is a conversation with God, yet many times I find myself doing all of the talking. This year one of my goals is to listen more, both to people and God.
Sometimes I find myself being the one who is doing all of the talking, striving for attention, trying to prove who I am and what I do is important. Why? Don’t I feel special enough to God that whatever man may give me is pale in comparison? Why do I need their approval anyway when I already have God’s? Oh, how easily I forget; so I talk about me and mine, not wanting to hear about them and theirs.
In prayer, many times I just pour out my heart to the Lord, say a quick, “I love You” at the end and I’m done. I’m still doing most of the talking. Yes, He’s always listening, but what about the things He wants to say? Will I take the time to listen to Him? Listening honors the one talking, both with people and with God. It shows that you have value for them and what they say; and I believe what Father God has to say is always important. Like King David, I want to be someone after God’s own heart, but I need to take the time to listen to what is on His heart.
So after reading this, take a moment or two and listen. We are now in a new year with new experiences, new challenges, and new opportunities coming our way. Listen to what Father God has to say to you about it.
Wow. Good word. It’s sometimes tough to get the hampsters in my mind to stop running long enough to hear the “still small voice.”
Happy New Year!
I am certainly guilty of talking often when I should be listening. It may be very surprising what one could learn if they practiced this.
Thank you for sharing.
Chuck
Thank you for the reminder of listening. I struggle with fears and God has been impressing upon me that quietness and confidence is my strenght. In that quietness is where my heart is encouraged by the Lord and my strength increases. I used to think that the instruction of quietness was just in not defending myself, God will be my defense. But know I also see that quietness is where I hear God speak. THEN my mountains shall be moved.